"I will give thanks to You, O LORD, among the peoples, And I will sing praises to You among the nations. For Your lovingkindness is great above the heavens, And Your truth reaches to the skies. Be exalted, O God, above the heavens, And Your glory above all the earth." Psalm 108:3-5

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Day 4

Each night seems to be getting better. Last night was the first night Ester left the boys to sleep on their own. When she went to check on them at 1am, she found Eli sleeping on the floor, even though he has a queen sized mattress on the floor to sleep on. Eli slept from 9:30pm to 6:30am, and Ian slept from 9:30pm to 5am. Ester's been waking around 3am every morning, but this happened in the States because of pregnancy insomnia anyways. David woke at 4:30am.

David left this morning at 8am to attend a new missionary orientation. He was able to walk 5 minutes to a local restaurant where the meeting was being held. The great thing about ZOE is that all the missionary families try to live near each other, so we are within blocks of one another.

Ester ventured to do some laundry and take a walk around the neighborhood with the boys. After walking for about 15 minutes, she decided to come back home, as the humidity was pretty thick. Ian enjoyed seeing some birds, a dragonfly, stray dogs, and a black cat.

Tomorrow, David will complete his orientation and then all the missionary families will head up to ZOE for their regular Friday night meeting with the children and introduction of new missionaries. The ZOE facility is about an hour away in a more rural area in the mountains.

Here are some pics...this is Ester's attempt at toasting bread without a toaster...it worked. =)


The food deliveries have been awesome and plentiful, but Ester realized we don't have a microwave and have a hard time reheating leftovers for the next day. This worked:



This shouldn't be a problem at our new place, as we will be purchasing a microwave. =P

Here's Ian turning anything into fun and games...coins, my hair rubberband, and a receipt:


Walking around the neighborhood. We're in a secure community. This is at the entrance of the gate:


Our street:


Our home for now:


Doing the laundry:




Where the boys play:


A typical bathroom in an older home:


The boys' room...another thing we learned is that American fitted sheets don't always fit the mattresses. We were told to bring our own, as nice ones can be expensive here. Our twin and queen sets are just a tad small. Good thing we brought the flat sheets: 


Our room:


An extra room where we're storing luggage:


Sorry for this, but here's a pic of the gecko droppings if you're curious. Normally, there aren't this many, but the home was empty for a few months before we came, so...


Ok, time to rest...

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

We Made It!!!

After an emotional sendoff at the airport Saturday night, we took the 17-hour flight into Bangkok, and then had 2 hours to make our 1-hour flight into Chiangmai. Thanks to all our family and church family for making it out so late to the airport...babies, children, and unborn children, and all. I was thinking that Sunday morning nurseries and classes might be rough. When we were going through the final checkpoint, the guy asked us if all that noise was for us. We love you all and are going to miss everyone one of you very much.

The last week before we left was cuh-ray-zy! It was a difficult endeavor to pack our entire lives into bags and boxes, deciding what to take, what to store, and what to bring later. We packed until the last minute. Most of the missionaries out here have their belongings stored in their homes that have been rented out. So we just got rid of as much as we could. We ended up taking an extra few bags and paying the fees.

The flight itself went better than expected. Eli fell asleep within 40 minutes of the flight around midnight.


Every couple hours, he'd wake up crying from a stuffy nose, but for most of the flight, he was okay. Right at the end, he started to meltdown and cried the entire way down as we landed. Then he was just plain exhausted and inconsolable as we tried to make our next flight. Everyone stared at us as we stood there waiting for 30 minutes trying to get through customs with a loud, crying, screaming baby. Ian, on the other hand, was the perfect traveler and was excited the whole time and was without complaint. God is gracious. As we waited for our 12 bags at the baggage claim, we saw all the travelers get their bags and exit, while we ended up being the very last people to leave, as we waited for our car seat that we checked in at the gate.

We're 14 hours ahead here, so we arrived Monday morning and were warmly greeted by a crowd of ZOE missionary families. Right away, we were hit with the heat and humidity. That will take some getting used to. The Tang Family, whom we met during our visit last November, took all our bags into their car and drove us to our new temporary home, which also happened to be their home last year, and the only home we visited in November. We were pleasantly surprised with 3 gift baskets of food, snacks, cleaning supplies, and other items we'd need right away, provided by ZOE. The Tangs showed us around the home and got us settled in.

The ZOE family has been amazing. They promptly gave us a schedule of different people assigned to drive us around each day and provide us dinner at night. We're so impressed with the quality of people who work at ZOE, just the best of the best. We're humbled and excited to work alongside such generous, kind, Christ-loving people. We love hearing everyone's life stories and what brought them to work at ZOE. Apart from the founders, David is the only one coming from a full-time ministry background. All the other missionaries come from professional backgrounds...business, accounting, finance, government, engineering, education, law, etc.

Tuesday and Wednesday have been full of errands...shopping for more supplies, getting cell phones, setting up the internet, setting up a bank account, looking for a car, etc. We tried to pack 2 bags that we could work out of for the first month so we wouldn't have to open up all the bags, but before we left, we had to keep redistributing the weights so everything got mixed up. We ended up opening up all the luggage and repacking. The boys are happy to see their toys and have been happily playing and watching DVDs. Eli picked up some bad habits (whining and hitting) in the weeks before we left, in the chaos of the move and not being able to be consistent with training and discipline. He's not happy about us bearing down on him now. The boys are doing extremely well with the jetlag. We all try to stay up until at least 9pm, but have been waking up anywhere from 3am-5am. All to say, we're tired. But we are overwhelmed with thankfulness for making it here; for the support of our family, church, and friends; the love of the ZOE family; and simply God's goodness.

We'll be looking for a home and buying a car in the next week or so. Here are some things we learned so far about life in Thailand:
  • Airport: The Bangkok airport is crazy big. Poor David had to trek from our first flight to our second flight carrying a car seat on his back, his backpack on his front, 2 laptops on his side, and a rolling carryon bag. I think we walked half a mile. We barely made our flight 2 hours later.
  • Food: Food will be an adjustment for the boys as we'll have to find textures and tastes that they're willing to eat. So far, they seem to be good with chicken/rice dishes. It's been hard finding fiber sources for them, as we're used to eating avocados every day. We've been relying on grapes and apples. Milk tastes a little different here, and our hypersensitive Ian quickly noticed this. Thankfully, they're used to it now and drinking away. We are doing our best to avoid foods sources that may get us sick, eating lots of yogurt, and drinking lots of what would be called yakult in the States. So far, no bacterial sickness, but Eli complained of a tummy ache yesterday and had a looser stool, so we'll have to keep an eye on that. David and Ester have meds ready in case our tummies are not adjusting. 
  • Driving: If you thought driving in LA was hairy, Thailand is no joke. Ester is wondering if she'll ever be able to drive here, as she'll be doing most of the driving because David can take a ZOE shuttle to work. Thus, we're looking for a home within 5 minutes of walking distance from Ian's school so she can avoid driving. And her record of not being at fault for 3 of her accidents in LA is no advantage here, as we were told that being a "farang" (foreigner), you will likely pay something regardless of who's at fault. And pedestrians don't have the right of way here. If you try to take it, they will mow you down.
  • Critters: Thailand is full of all kinds of critters. We were told that we'll see geckos from time to time crawling along the walls in our homes, but we're to leave them be, as they eat up the other unwanted critters. However, we should pick up the droppings they leave around the house. Ian's job is to find the droppings before Eli does. One advantage is that we don't have to have artificial white noise for the boys because there is the natural white noise of frogs croaking, birds chirping, and other animals and bugs chiming together. We were also told to do the dishes right after meals, so as not to attract ants. David's happy about this one, as it's a pet peeve of his to leave dishes in the sink.
  • Weather: The first day seemed the warmest and most humid. Every night, it's been raining hard, and then overcast or clears up during the day. Today, it rained during the day. This home has a fan and A/C in every room, so we try to stay in the same areas so we only have to run one A/C. In the evenings, we have the fans running all night.
  • Conversions: Everything is in kg, celsius, 220 volts, and baht (instead of dollars) here. We're having to recalculate constantly to make sure we know what we're doing.
  • Electronics: Most Thai homes don't have dryers (just washing machines) and a lot of the electronics that we Americans use. If you use too many at once, the power may go out. Being in this temporary home, we're not purchasing appliances just yet (toaster oven, microwave, dryer, etc.), so Ester's making the most of a simpler life. =) Without the internet, tv, and phones the first few days, it was nice to just enjoy one another rather than being distracted by everything else. And if we try to plug in something that is not designated as 110V-240V, then we can fry our electronic.
Here are some pics...happy on the airplane:


Carseats aren't required in Thailand:


This is a mom and her 2 kids covered in a tarp driving in the rain on a motorcyle:


Embracing Thai culture...sitting in the back of a truck:


These 2 guys are just hanging on the back of this songtheaow (taxi-type of truck):


All for now...thanks for your prayers!

Saturday, September 24, 2011

Last Post Before We're in Thailand!

We'll be offline for a bit until we get settled in Thailand. This week has been crazy with getting rid of more stuff and packing. Our family and church family have been a great help and blessing bringing meals, taking the boys out so we can get things done and they can get outdoors, and taking furniture and other items off of our hands. Additional updates:
  • Commissioning Service: We had a wonderful time worshipping and fellowshipping with our church family and guests this past Sunday at our commissioning service. It was a full house with relatives traveling all the way from Canada and NorCal to say goodbye. We were overwhelmed by the love and support of everyone in our lives. Thanks to everyone who made it out to see us off. David preached from Ephesians 6:18-20 about prayer, and asked for prayer for us to be bold to preach the gospel of Christ, and to persevere in the years to come.
  • Housing: We found a temporary home to rent. One of the ZOE missionary families knew of a home that needed a temporary subletter, so we'll be renting for at least a month, but we have the option to stay longer if needed. Hopefully we'll find a place with a week or so. Praise God!
  • Packing: We've shipped off 24 boxes of mostly David's books, some DVDs/CDs, and paper files. Hopefully we'll get all that in a few months. It looks like we'll need more than 8 bags to check in on the plane, so we'll pay the extra charges for maybe a total of 10 bags. The family (except Ian) has all developed a bit of a dust allergy with phlegm and coughing, as we've kicked up all the dust in our place. Hopefully, it'll clear up once we're out of here. 
Will post pics once we arrive and settle in Thailand. Bye everyone! Thank you!!!

Thursday, September 15, 2011

10 Days to Go!

We are now counting down in "days" and can't believe how fast the time has flown by. We enjoyed a wonderful time with our church in San Diego at our 15-year annual retreat. We've been busy packing and having our last meals with friends. Sadly, we're now at the point where we have to turn down offers to meet up one last time with friends, as we are busy packing, Ester is either finishing up a work project or laid out sick on the couch throughout the day and night, and David is running around doing the errands. Unfortunately, the boys are watching way too much tv, and playing way too many computer and ipod games. We hope to get back to a normal life once we're settled in Thailand. A huge help has been a dear sister from church, Tiffany, who's been coming on her days off to take the boys out in the mornings so they can have some fun and we can make some progress.

David's parents are arriving today from Korea, and more relatives are arriving in the days to come. We look forward to spending time with family before we leave.

Here are some additional updates:
  • Commissioning Service: Our last Sunday at church will be our sendoff service this coming Sunday, Sept. 18, at 9:30am. David will preach his last sermon, finishing up his series through the book of Ephesians. The 1st hour will be followed by a short update on what we'll be doing in Thailand, then a report on our church's mission trip to Japan. We'll end with a catered lunch. We look forward to seeing friends who'll be visiting the church to say goodbye. However, we'll be sad to say goodbye to those we'll be seeing for the last time before we depart.
  • Departure Flight: We are departing Saturday, Sept. 24, at 11:20pm on Thai Airlines from the International Terminal. We will most likely arrive around 8:30pm to ensure enough time for check-in.
  • ZOE Funds: As previously updated, we've reached our financial goals for our initial 2-year commitment. We continue to receive funds from family and friends beyond our goals. (God is abundantly gracious!) ZOE will allow us to use any additional funds for emergency situations and future financial needs if we stay beyond the initial 2 years.
  • zoe Necklaces/Keychains: We've now given out about 100 zoe necklaces and keychains for donations of $10 or more. Wow!
  • Liz Wang Photography: Some wonderfully talented friends of ours from church are offering a limited time family/baby photo session, with proceeds going to ZOE. Click here for details. Make sure to click "Home" to see their amazing photos. Any photo done by them would be a beautiful keepsake.
  • Packing: God continues to be gracious to us as someone we know will be moving into our apartment, along with his roommates. This allows us to leave many of the items we would've had to get rid of (e.g., housewares, small furniture, etc.). We're thankful we have less to do in our final days. Everyone asks us how much of our stuff we'll be taking with us. We're packing up as much as we can into 8 check-in bags, which will consist of clothes, shoes, toys, belongings, and some household items that may be difficult to find or expensive in Thailand. We're boxing up David's books, our DVDs and CDs, and will ship all these by sea. We anticipate about 15 boxes. We are fortunate that the ZOE family will have some baby items that we can borrow, so that we don't have to bring these things out now.
  • Pregnancy: We are thankful that the pregnancy is progressing well, which means Ester is very sick. She's working hard to keep down what she eats, watching carefully what she eats so it's easy to digest (i.e., no more fatty foods), and breaking down her meals into small portions to prevent indigestion and nausea. Yes, it's all about food. We're praying daily that God would keep the baby healthy and entrusting his/her life into His hands. We'll have one last doctor's visit before we leave so we can have some time to settle in Thailand before having to make another doctor's visit. 
  • Housing: We continue to research online for homes to rent. The ZOE family has been amazing, as they've been checking out homes for us on their own and emailing us their videotaped tours of the homes! How great are they! We're so thankful to enter into such a loving ZOE family.
  • Ian: Ian is feeling the weight of our imminent departure, as he's now been saying that he only wants to go for a short time and then return to our country. He asked his Auntie Swan why her family can't come with us. We've been reminding him that we'll be able to visit during the summers, and that friends and family can visit us. We've also been telling him that home is where the family is, and that we'll make a new home together in Thailand, and he won't want to leave there because he'll enjoy it so much. We've emailed all his paperwork to enroll him in the international Christian school we hope he can attend. He's currently missing the 1st quarter and will begin his 2nd quarter on Oct. 10. For a boy who struggles greatly with change and transitions, we've often used those times as opportunities to teach him that Christ and His Word is the only unchanging, constant in our lives, that He is the one to find His hope and peace in. This move will be the biggest opportunity thus far to teach him this life-truth. Please pray for his little heart, as we anticipate the transition will be an emotional one for him.
  • Visits: Another question that people ask is when we will visit the States. Ester may return to deliver the baby in America, but if all is well with the pregnancy, she may deliver in Thailand. Normally, we should be able to return during the summers for a few months. We get a total of 2 months off! Visits in 2012 will be uncertain, but normally, we should be able to visit during the summer months.
Here are some pics...last visit at Riley-bear's:



Disneyland with Auntie Connie, cousin Nathaniel, and Connie's niece:




First time at Legoland. We usually take Ian's cousin Kristen or Shelby on our trips, but because they were in school already, Zoe got to come for the first time:






Ester's farewell party at work:




Beautifully decorated Thai-style:




Ester with her coworker and boss. They've known each other since 1999:




Another trip to Disneyland with Uncle George, Auntie Connie, and cousins Nathaniel & Leila:





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